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We’ve been quiet for a while, lots going on which doesn’t leave a lot of time for blogging, but I’ll endeavor to post more regularly going forward. It’s about five months since I decided to integrate our lifestyle and our life…you may be asking aren’t they the same thing, but they most certainly are not. Though we had agreed that we wanted to live an FLR lifestyle we don’t share our lifestyle with friends and family, if you met us on the street you’d never know who we are in private. But if we were to have FLR as our lifestyle it had to integrate into our lives without alerting the masses while staying true to our rules. How we are figuring out how to do that will be a separate, longer blog post. Read More »
I had the opportunity to read Uniquely Rika
One day a week my husband works from home and I’ve been kind enough to fill the slow moments with a honey-do list of chores to avoid boredom. Between business calls and work emergencies he ticks off the base list which includes laundry, washing the floors and planning dinner, then throughout the day I may message him with something else I need done. With work as the priority these “extras” are contingent on his available time, the basics however are non-negotiable. Domestic chores are nice, of course, but this week I used his work from home day to step up his personal service to me. After a volley of sexually teasing messages to get him heated up I instructed him on my plans for the evening. He was to prepare dinner for the family, clean up as usual, then shower and present himself for my inspection. Upon approval he was to rearrange the bathroom and prepare it for a Ladies Bath. Knowing how my husband likes clear instruction and being aware that this was a first for both of us, I was clear on what I liked. Read More »
If you found my blog during a Google search there is no doubt I’m just one of a million sites out there talking about alternative lifestyles such as FLR, male chastity and Femdom. I know because when I began this journey with my husband I sought out the internet for information as well. My goal had been to find people similar to us that I could talk to about the pro’s and con’s of taking my ‘normal’ marriage down this foreign road. After stripping away the porn sites and the adult toy stores, I was left with three types of blogs. Blogs written by men weaving an elaborate fantasy about living the life, blogs written by women weaving an elaborate fantasy about living the life, and a small number of blogs that were, for the most part, believable accounts of couples living the lifestyle. Once I narrowed the blog list down I found more frustration in that many of the blogs started out great and then fell into neglect, with the last posts being a year or more ago. Even without any current activity I started reading the archives of these sites, hoping to find some helpful information. Instead I found a lot of angry women. Read More »
There is just something about a new year that brings out the focused dreamer in us all. That person who makes resolutions to lose weight, get a better job, go back to school. quit smoking…the list is endless. In our home the new year brings into focus our desire to step up the FLR lifestyle we’ve been dabbling in. When we began this as a lifestyle the decision was made that I would be in charge of all five groups - finances, free time, household chores, sex and life direction – and while my husbands input is valued, mine is the last word. Our plan was something sketchy like: Read More »
Recently, in a “fantasy” conversation, my husband brought up the concept of being a House Husband. Since then it’s an idea I’ve been contemplating, perhaps more than my husband expected.
In theory the role of a house husband would mirror the ideal of a house wife, one key person who tends to the responsibilities of the home. This past week my husband had the week off from work and I did not. Prior to his vacation time I said he could use the time to show me what being a house husband means to him. I also did not enforce the wearing of his chastity device for the week. Honestly I was expecting to be wowed, after all it was his idea to be a house husband, not mine. But I find too often with my husband that fantasies are great but implementation is lacking. By Thursday all that got done was the laundry, something he normally does weekly anyway. Read More »
First times are milestones…we can all remember our first job, our first kiss, our first car and the first time we had sex. This morning I was reminiscing about the first time I delivered my husbands first adult spanking. Having never spanked my children, no been spanked as a child myself, this was foreign but exciting. For both of us. I researched the idea to death because while I wanted this tool for both pleasure and discipline, I have no desire to irreparably hurt my husband. In my mind it was a way to strengthen our FLR lifestyle, one that would ultimately bring us both the results we wanted. Read More »
I can look back now on the day I met my husband, nearly seven years ago and see quite clearly the submissiveness he didn’t quite hide. There were moments on that date where I wasn’t sure if there would be a second – he was quiet, uncertain and in such a moment of trying to get to know when another it made it very difficult to see the man he was. Luckily for both of us I was interested enough to proceed.
Fast forward to a revelation that wasn’t as big a surprise as it seemed at the time. My husband wanted me to control our life. Everything from sex to money to our family life and our future plans, I was to be the decision maker. He wanted to please me and serve me and pamper me and his ultimate goal in life was to make me happy. He’d been covertly trying to take on chores, pushing me to make many of our life decisions, waiting on me…I admit I was a little freaked out by these covert attempts. The old joke if a guy brings home flowers unexpectedly is that he must be atoning for some misdeed but what about the guy whose only purpose is to bring a smile to his wife’s face? Read More »
Like most couples there are just some days when sex is the furthest thing from either of our minds. The difference being that no matter what our sexual energy level is my husband is always locked in chastity and the benefits cannot be overstated. It’s no secret that men and woman have different libidos and rarely do they peak at the same time. Men, in general, are more readily primed for sex – even if they weren’t thinking about it – a mere look, touch or suggestion is all it takes. Woman on the other hand need to be both emotionally and physically open to the suggestion, though there are no guarantees. Read More »
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